Personal Retreat

When was the last time you took a week off solely for the purpose of your own reflection, renewal and growth? As you read this, I am in San Juan Capistrano, California, participating in the Ultimate Leadership course, one that I have recommended to many of my executive clients. Those who attended came back with rave reviews. I read most of the books by the program leaders, Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend and have been impressed and enlightened by their teachings on living a life that matters and achieving significance in marriage, parenting and leadership.

I look forward to uncovering some blind spots—you know those areas that you don’t know you don’t know. I welcome the intellectual stimulation that comes from interacting with other leaders on issues of ethics, personal balance, purpose and vision. I want to hear what God is leading me to do and how he would like to use me in this next phase of my life. Selfishly, I am very glad to get away from email, voice mail and my daily routine for a week. I intend to wake up early each morning and take brisk walks. I want to listen to the birds, breathe fresh air and experience solitude and silence.

I do not believe anyone can ever become a
deep person without stillness and silence.
- Chuck Swindoll

I share this to encourage you to take time out this year for your own growth, and treat yourself to a program that will make your mind think in new ways and renew your energy level with a fresh enthusiasm for life. There are many ways you can accomplish it. Be creative and investigate what’s available. One client, the managing partner of a CPA firm, is treating herself for the first time to a “post tax season” spa trip all by herself. Yes, she is taking a bold move by leaving her teenaged daughter and husband during the week and doing something for herself! Successful people know when a need that goes unmet will cost dearly. They know the value of continued growth, rest and recreation. Maybe you need a break. Ask those around you what the benefit could be!

For information on the Ultimate Leadership program, see www.cloudtownsend.com.

About the Author: Elaine Siciliano Morris is principal consultant and founder of Sea Change Inc, an organizational effectiveness firm based in the Dallas/Fort Worth area. A frequent keynote speaker and workshop presenter on leadership, corporate culture and personal growth, Elaine works with leaders and their teams to create productive and rewarding work environments. More information about her is available on her website: www.seachangecoach.com, or contact Elaine by phone at 972-407-0648.